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Dealing With A Fussy Baby During A Flight | Episode 18
Ever found yourself juggling a fever and a fussy toddler while trying to look presentable for a podcast? We've been there, done that, and we're sharing the raw and honest tales of parenting under the public microscope. Join us as we open up about the challenges, the scrutiny, and the laugh-out-loud moments that come with raising little ones in the age of the internet. From the chaotic start and lost episodes to heartfelt discussions on co-parenting and child well-being, we're laying it all out on the table.
Remember thinking a one-year-old's birthday party was for the tot? Think again! We’re chatting about the hilariously unnecessary themes that truly are for the adults, and the familiar whirlwind of organizing family gatherings that leave us both exasperated and amused. But it's not all about the parties; we also delve into the intricate dance of divided families during holidays, the impact of hormones on teenagers, and ensuring our kids feel heard in the shuffle. It's a journey filled with empathy, humor, and a few too many car ride singalongs.
As the school year wraps and summer chaos looms, we're swapping stories of vacation plans with the kiddos, from air shows to beach outings. Travel with us as we confront the daunting task of flying with children, debating the ethics of "medicinal peace" and sharing our strategies for keeping the peace at 30,000 feet. And for a dose of the extraordinary, we discuss the controversial case of a centenarian's pregnancy post-ovary transplant. Buckle up for this rollercoaster episode where we tackle the serious, the silly, and the downright bizarre facets of parenting.
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Speaker 2:No, she looks she just had a baby, which one's mine.
Speaker 1:She did not just have a baby, hello, hello, how's that my three?
Speaker 2:You saw right there, come on, that's not her, I think you're not.
Speaker 4:Johnny no way.
Speaker 2:No no way.
Speaker 1:Show the camera.
Speaker 3:this I'm nah, that's what it said alright, well, none of this is gonna be um yeah, okay, 100% maybe, maybe at a later date, don't, don't?
Speaker 4:yeah, alright, hold on, let me get this last cough. You need a cough drop? No, I have allergies.
Speaker 1:Yeah, dale well, ladies and ugly men, is she, the right arm, still right? Yeah, everything's right, everything's recording. Ladies and ugly men, welcome to Parents Uncut Podcast and welcome to my place, you got a nice place, johnny.
Speaker 4:Hey, listen, I love this here.
Speaker 1:I try my best. It's a little too artsy for me. But whatever my designer said, this is what we need. You know you stepped up in life, bring everything with you. So glad to have you guys over thank you, go into existence.
Speaker 3:Okay, yeah, for us I want to pull outside like that shit, I did, that shit is nice amen nah well, all by the grace of god amen.
Speaker 4:Correct, correct. Well, I'm Jazz. I'm also one of the hosts, and Jackie, yes, and we missed you guys as much as you missed us.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 4:Unfortunately we had some technical difficulties.
Speaker 1:And we shot a great episode. We did, unfortunately, I kind of don't remember, but it was great.
Speaker 4:No, we had a really fun episode. I was sick that day but I pulled through. I'm like I'm going to pull through for the fans.
Speaker 1:Yo champion of life, you were.
Speaker 4:You know I was puking and like and then like hello everyone. But you know what? At least what I told Donna. I said at least I got to spend time with my friends.
Speaker 2:That's right 100%, that's why we do this. I was a little sad that it didn't come out because I didn't want to talk shit, but it is what it is.
Speaker 4:Yes, that's life, and we pushed through it and look, we're in a nice new place right now 100%.
Speaker 3:You're welcome.
Speaker 4:So yeah, we talked about, what we spoke about. We spoke about.
Speaker 1:Damn was that the episode where we spoke about the young lady.
Speaker 4:Yes, Amoralex.
Speaker 1:So whack, bro, because that was so deep.
Speaker 2:But it's still trending so we can quickly talk about it if y'all want, or you know what, honestly, I haven't even, I haven't even like brushed up on the subject. I don't even know what's happening.
Speaker 4:No, but now they're basically making fun of her saying I'm going to have a more relaxed summer, or more relaxed this summer. They show her like turned up in the club, so whatever.
Speaker 1:No one's safe. You can't live no one's safe on the internet. It doesn't matter what your thing is, and that's the listen, but that Use it as a platform to get your message out there at times. But anybody can do what they want with that message once it's out there, like she used it to be like yo look man, I was struggling and this is the action I took and some people liked it. It was like oh, but then you got a lot more people that are going to jump on the negative.
Speaker 2:Yeah because they're going to be judgmental, and everybody's going to be judgmental in that moment, because everybody's the perfect parent when they want to judge you for your parenting style, or whether you can or can't. She said she couldn't. She dropped her kids off.
Speaker 4:You know, and I think the part that really like made people feel some type of way was the age of the kids, because it's not like if it was a baby. It was five kids 11, 9, 5, and two twin girls that were two turning three 11, 9, 5, and 2 twin girls that were 2 turning 3. So the young ones, you know, if she don't get them back because you know, realistically it's hard to get your kids back from foster care yeah, the 5, 9, and 11-year-old, they already have a relationship with their mom.
Speaker 2:So they're going to feel abandoned. Yeah, Especially the. It was an 11-year-old 11-year-old.
Speaker 4:I thought it was 13.
Speaker 1:I thought that was a 13-year-old in there, it was 11 and 9.
Speaker 4:Yeah, but you know what? It's a sad situation. You know the kids are going to feel, even though she said she spoke to her kids and she told them she was doing it for their future. I'm sure they'd rather have a broke parent with them instead of going to foster care.
Speaker 2:They don't understand money situations.
Speaker 1:We don't understand a lot of the sacrifices our parents made. We just see how it affected us. And now, when you get older, as much as you start really replaying shit and understanding things you had the conversation with your mom. Now you understand her life and there's just different things. You start to see like, oh damn, I've had that with my pops and I'm like, oh you know what, I guess because of this and that. So you start to piece that together. But when it's happening you're a kid, your understanding is just yo, I need my mom and the mom ain't there. Your brain automatically associates it with abandon was they're still gonna take the struggle and be with their parent.
Speaker 4:But you know what I pray that she hustles and she fights and she gets her kids back, because if you really want it, you're gonna do it absolutely well, god bless her and her kids.
Speaker 1:Yes, what you guys doing for memorial day I don't know, jasmine.
Speaker 2:What are you doing?
Speaker 4:oh, I am going. Is it considered Don's house? No, no, it's not, is Maryland's house.
Speaker 2:I'm going to.
Speaker 4:Maryland Pause.
Speaker 2:We need to go back to like.
Speaker 4:School. Well, anyway, I'm going to Maryland For the weekend. I'm going to Don's family's House. They're having a barbecue. Love it, very fun.
Speaker 2:I think that's so fun. I'm so happy you're doing, like all the family and all the kids are going.
Speaker 4:Yeah, it's gonna be a road bringing the kids.
Speaker 1:Yes, his kids and my kids, oh, w-a-c-k I got the mom car yesterday texted me.
Speaker 2:He said mom, what are we doing this weekend? And I was like I don't know. And he was like um, well, I said why he's like? Because I want to go see Romeo. And I said, oh, baby. Romeo's not going to be here. He's going away.
Speaker 1:Oh, I'm so confused. He was so pissed. I told you my aventura.
Speaker 4:It's caught right now.
Speaker 2:Romeo Santos.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm like what, it's not me. I want to see Romeo.
Speaker 5:Yeah, his bestie, Romeo, my son.
Speaker 4:Hello, no, you know what? Romeo initially didn't want to go because so he's on punishment and he took he don't have anything no electronics he's just behaving bad, overreacting over here no, it's not overreacting, he's just being defiant. Okay, not listening, not, you know, I have to repeat myself constantly and I have to really. He's gonna be 13. So now's the time when I really have to repeat myself constantly. He's going to be 13. Now's the time when I really have to enforce Pone de la pila.
Speaker 2:I can't even think about it. He's going to be 13.
Speaker 4:Even though he looks like he's seven. I know, but he don't have no PlayStation, no laptop, no VR. His phone's taken away. He's just like I don't want to go, I don't want to be in a car without a phone. But you're not giving it back to him for the trip at least. No, he's punished for a good.
Speaker 1:I said two weeks to a month. Yo y'all cruel.
Speaker 2:Yes, you should have thought about that when you wasn't listening. I get it, but damn Sorry, romy, I love you, but you got to listen.
Speaker 4:Yeah, he got to respect comes to his father. He will never be like, no, I'm not doing it. Or if his father tells him to do something, he's gonna do it, but with me you think you get away. And he has for a long time that comes with comfort as well.
Speaker 1:You can't just make it look like he's just like picking that over. It's like it's a very different relationship. Right like I'm with you every day and I'm the softy yeah but now I gotta be fuerte.
Speaker 4:Yeah, it's not the hearty, but I got to be the tough parent.
Speaker 5:Yeah, a little bit, you got to be a little bit more.
Speaker 4:No, no, I got the belt, but I learned that hitting him only makes him act out more.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 4:So that's why I hit him where it hurts that cell phone, because he got a girlfriend now.
Speaker 1:That was big.
Speaker 4:And now you ain't texting her what you? Emma's old school little film? Oh, me too.
Speaker 1:Is it the Riz shorty?
Speaker 4:No, it's.
Speaker 2:Oh it's a new one, it's a different one.
Speaker 4:It's a different one. Yes, Another Blanquita.
Speaker 2:Ami has a girlfriend too, but I know nothing about her. It's the new girlfriend, apparently the old one. I don't know what happened. I haven't gotten the scoop. He doesn't want to tell me. Yeah, find out, let me know. Usually the older brothers would like snitch. Nah, he's the one who told me. Oh, he just told you straight up. He was no, no, yeah devon told me oh, devon told you so romeo's girlfriend.
Speaker 4:She lives at the next corner of my house. Oh right, danger. So you know, he's like can I ride the bike over there? I'm like all right, what? When he wasn't punished. So he's like can I ride the bike over there? I'm like all right, when he wasn't punished. So he's like he always wants to take the late bus so he could be on the bus with her. And then the other day he's like can we go to Chipotle please? I want to go to Chipotle. And I was like fine, we go to Chipotle.
Speaker 1:She was there, she was there and he got holy guac. It's expensive, so it's like you really want to see her and then it was so awkward.
Speaker 4:He's like, hi, isa, and I was like Go sit with her. And he's like, nah, I'm like he didn't want to. He didn't want to go sit with her. He was like Can we take her to go? I was like you wanted to come here. Yeah, I would have been like no, you're going girls he's playing it right.
Speaker 1:It's like yo what's up. Ma you here, I'm here too. Yo see you later. Yeah, he didn't want to sit with her nothing.
Speaker 4:I was like go eat with her. He was like no, I can't wait to get to go home, like you being mad, weird bro. He's like no, that's just weird. So she gets up. You were my mom. She has a little crop top on and pajama pants. That's the thing. Now the kids only want to wear pajama pants to school with a little crop top and and she's 12. And her friend had the same thing Hot ass Christmas pajama pants. And I was like your girl looks like a little Trish. It's like she's not, she's a nice girl.
Speaker 2:She looks like a what.
Speaker 1:Yeah, mom, stop judging.
Speaker 4:What does that mean? A little cuarito.
Speaker 1:I didn't even know. I think that's Suffolk County.
Speaker 4:That's a new Trish. Yes, what's that?
Speaker 2:Trish.
Speaker 4:Trish is New York City lingo.
Speaker 2:I've never heard of it. Really, I'm going to ask Devin when I get home Is this caulk.
Speaker 1:Caulk, yeah, the Caucasian I've never heard of a Trish.
Speaker 4:No, you've never heard of a Trish.
Speaker 1:I've never heard any Puerto R Trish.
Speaker 4:Really. No, that's that's. It's the Jewish side of you.
Speaker 2:Oh, that's what it is.
Speaker 4:Damn you forgot your family tree no offense no, that's Trish Tuti. You know, Tuti.
Speaker 1:Tuti, I heard that's a Bronx thing.
Speaker 4:Yeah, Trish is like a Brooklyn thing. Oh yeah, she's Trish.
Speaker 1:What Williamsburg?
Speaker 4:Nah, I don't know. Don't ask me, I didn't learn the lingo, I just hear it.
Speaker 2:Insert. So anyway, urban dictionary meaning of this word yeah, so they go back to Memorial Day weekend.
Speaker 4:Now he decided yesterday I'm going to go with you because he knows we're going to have fun and he doesn't want to miss out on the fun. Of course I was like listen, sleep on the car ride. We're leaving at six o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah.
Speaker 4:Sleep. You're going to have fun with the bros. You know it's outdoors. You're going to play football and that stuff. We got Uno.
Speaker 2:Oh, he's going to have a good time All of the boys are going to have a weekend. Nothing Really. I might try to go to the beach on Saturday.
Speaker 1:You should. It's going to be 80. You are tripping. That shit's going to be pracked.
Speaker 2:I don't care.
Speaker 4:Aren't they doing the air show Right? They're doing the air show at Jones Beach. That's on Monday, I think.
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, I think that's on Monday, on Memorial Day.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I will not do that.
Speaker 4:I do not want to Orchard Beach. What are you doing, Johnny boy?
Speaker 1:Celebrating Paige's first birthday. Even though her birthday was May 16th. We're celebrating it now because Spongebob had all those recitals last week, Possibly hating life because I hate celebrating birthdays for one-year-olds.
Speaker 2:Well, you know what?
Speaker 1:They're not for the baby. It's exactly my point. No, so I'm just like what are we doing here?
Speaker 2:I never like to do the one-year-old birthday. I like to wait until they're five.
Speaker 4:Yeah, you know, See like.
Speaker 1:Penelope by three. Already knew yo, I want to do a LOL birthday.
Speaker 4:It was like all right, you're picking it the. Sorry for scaring you.
Speaker 2:I think it was this year that.
Speaker 1:The bouncy house, just so, johnny hears me next to him.
Speaker 4:I can't stand you Wait. Are you getting a bouncy house for the baby's birthday this weekend? Yes, Okay, so is it?
Speaker 1:There will be a bouncy house For the bigger kids. For the bigger kids, because my kid will not enjoy any of it. She'll be in my arms, sweating my life away. Excitement she's still so clingy. Of course she walks. Now, though it's kind of creepy because she's only this big she's not that big, I'm dead ass she's so cute they just measured her at her first year thing. I think she was like 26 inches all right, that's not 26 inches whatever man I was like what the heck man?
Speaker 1:and you see, her walk is creepy as shit because she like sticks her belly out so she looks like a smurf. It's just the wildest shit to see oh, she's so cute.
Speaker 4:Well, what's the theme?
Speaker 1:some bunnies turning one like bunnies, so creative.
Speaker 4:So creative.
Speaker 1:I hate it, yeah, but yeah, that's what it is. There is no theme Do you have bunny ears. No, we're not doing any of that shit. Oh okay, I'm the Grinch, right Like I'm the idea killer.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:So I'll be like, well, no, that sounds whack. You know why? Because I don't want her looking at pictures in the future and being like Dad, what the? Fuck Like, why are you guys wearing those ears? So you're just blaming it on her mom? No, oh, if that happened, yeah, yeah, 100%, are you?
Speaker 4:getting a bunny to come to the party.
Speaker 1:No.
Speaker 4:Okay, that's what I said. It's kind of a theme, but it's really not, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1:There's cute no, actually the cake is plain too are you sure that's the theme I'm? Honest, I'll take pictures and I'll see, because maybe I'm bugging, but that's what. That's what it was some bunnies turning one okay, just the backdrop yeah, that's what it is. Just the fucking card that they send out like yo, the invitation is this. And then you get there like where are the bunnies? Oh no, it's just the invitation bro are you having a big party?
Speaker 4:a lot, lot of people.
Speaker 1:I believe. So, yes, wow, I kind of stay out of the mix. I let them call the shots and all right, cool Alcohol. I got it Just in that. Got it Just like cool Alcohol. Yes, because I don't know, like, even with, like my side, we're going to do it big. A bigger. Yeah, when she can actually know what's going on. Well, it's okay. No, listen, you're right, it's like three.
Speaker 4:I'm still going to invite you to Katie's birthday party.
Speaker 1:And I hope that you bring your children, or at least Nellope, but she's coming out here. Yeah, paige goes nuts on 15 minute rides.
Speaker 2:Indito.
Speaker 1:Nah, I just put the music high. You're fucking.
Speaker 2:That's what I used to do to Devin. Devin used to scream in the car and I used to just put the music really loud, so it would drown him out Yo.
Speaker 4:Katie when she was a baby. I remember one year I had to drop my niece off a three and a half hour drive, and she only wanted to hear Daddy Yankee shaky, shaky, shaky over and over For three hours. Shaky, shaky, shaky, shaky, shaky Yo.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I picked the Bluey soundtrack. That's what calms Paige down and she don't want to hear any other tracks. You got to go back to the freaking intro and just play it over and over again.
Speaker 4:Nah I Penelope. I used to use my noise-canceling headphones and just let her rock because I didn't want to make her deaf.
Speaker 1:I used to be like do, do, do, do, do and driving, and then I would look in the mirror real quick and I'd just be like Face red I'm like damn, she's still going to stop.
Speaker 4:It's been 18 minutes, damn it. Terrible, terrible.
Speaker 1:Not as terrible as that guy screaming at his son. You guys saw the clip of Mr my son don't want to stay with me. That was so corny. How dare he disrespect me? You pick your mom over me. He's like no, you're making him pick his mom over you, buddy. Amir, please put that clip in so people could see it because, it's super corny as a parent to do that.
Speaker 5:Check it out right here. Look Super corny as a parent to do that. Check it out right here. Look, look at the camera. Gay, choose his mama over me, like I'm around here treating him wrong. What kid don't want to be around their daddy? Please tell me and as a daddy, this hurt because I know his mama got something to do with it too, but still he's old enough to make his own decisions and he choose his mama over his daddy.
Speaker 3:His flesh and blood Somebody that can teach him how to be a man, but he want to be up on a woman all day.
Speaker 5:Tell the people how you don't love your daddy and how you'd rather be with your mama and time over here is boring and you don't want to spend time with your daddy. Look like I haven't been picking them up all these years. Like what is the problem? Like this is not your first time at my house.
Speaker 1:So you saw what I'm saying. Like that's just crazy to me. I don't know, bro. That's where the edit goes. No, so basically Well, you guys do know that we are actors.
Speaker 2:No, yes.
Speaker 1:Like this is our real life, but that we are actors. No, yes, this is our real life, but we have to In essence, yes, we are performing.
Speaker 2:I'm giving you my real opinion. That was not corny. That was so fucking embarrassing. That was the most embarrassing thing for that poor child.
Speaker 4:He's a narcissist parent.
Speaker 2:I say yes and no. I think that he didn't know what the. I think he doesn't know how to fucking be a father. If he thinks that being a father is teaching your son how to be a man, that's not all.
Speaker 2:There is to being a parent Like I'm not going to teach. If I had a daughter, I'm not just teaching her how to be a woman, I'm teaching her life lessons, and you just taught him that it's not okay to teach. If I had a daughter, I'm not just teaching her how to be a woman, I'm teaching her life lessons, and you just taught him that it's not okay to have feelings.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I mean, in all fairness, we did just catch a glimpse of it right, Right.
Speaker 2:We don't know the conversation yeah.
Speaker 1:My issue is and I said it to you guys earlier like we're programmed this way. We don't know how to deal with that kind of adversity coming from our kids, where they do Right, they see their kids, they're calm, they talk it out, like yo, but what is it? You're feeling Like us. Normally, thankfully, we're like read up and we try to figure life out, but for the most of our people are just quick to like take it personal, right, and that's what he was doing in that video. It's like bro, that's just he was doing in that video. He was like bro, that shit's gonna push him even more away. I didn't like that part where he's like you pick your mother over me, like now you're, you're causing issues beyond just what you guys are going through, right?
Speaker 4:now, because he's saying something that is probably false because, it's not about picking his mom over him, I just said comfort right, but you know what it's like that when you have, when you're co-parenting. Right, because, let's say, when my kids go to their father's house whenever they do, they have fun over there. Right, because it's not everyday life. So this kid I guess he's closer to his family, his mother's, like in the video they say his family, her side of the family, are always together doing things, right and he doesn't want to spend the summer with his father.
Speaker 4:He wants to spend it with them.
Speaker 1:So he's not the fun dad.
Speaker 4:But he did.
Speaker 2:Okay, so the dad is sitting there saying that they always do fun things.
Speaker 1:Fun for him.
Speaker 2:Fun for him, Right? We don't know that it's fun for the kid. We know that he thinks it's fun. Yep. Recently my kids started going back to their dad's house Love it their dad.
Speaker 1:They chose this.
Speaker 2:An apartment, oh, really.
Speaker 1:And they made this choice.
Speaker 2:Are you like? So their dad did think that automatically because he has his own place. Well, I'm going to go pick them up now and I was like whoa, whoa, whoa. Remember the conversation? Make sure you speak to them. I'm not going to get in the middle of. Make sure this is what they want. I know you're good with it because he loves being around his kids, right? Of course, when he can. So he did speak to them. They were like, yeah, I do want to go over there. They had a great time.
Speaker 4:Is it his own place or with a girlfriend?
Speaker 2:No, he lives on his own. Wow, okay, he is a bachelor. He's got a bachelor pad.
Speaker 4:It's just him and the boys when he has them. And they had a great time and I was yeah, and that was the issue that they had before. It was. It wasn't about not wanting to be with their dad, it was about the living situation the dad was in. He was with, yeah, right and that's and, and.
Speaker 2:So now that they feel more comfortable, now they're willing to go over there and spend the time with him. But it was never like that situation, like yeah, picking sides guy. It's not about picking sides, it's not. Oh, they want to be with mom because you know mom is the. You know, let them get away with whatever I don't. They probably rather not be with me actually I can see that.
Speaker 4:Fuck you jackie, don't play. No, like I like I do.
Speaker 2:I do support them and I I make sure that they're having a good time, but also wash the damn dishes yeah, when I pick up after yourself and my, my boys, well devin.
Speaker 4:Mostly he's the one who's the clean one and he gets pissed off if it's a mess and he starts picking up they'll start vacuuming and it's like he's my kid yeah, he's my kid, that's good, yeah, um, yeah, so anyway, back to the guy that for me uncalled for.
Speaker 1:You don't have to do that yeah, I mean, he looked like a fool man. I think he was trying to prove a point. He got into his emotions you could tell I, I, I would hope that after seeing that out there and getting the backlash, like a part of him is like I didn't handle this right, and hopefully approach his son like look man, people are saying this and that Like my bad bro, Like you know.
Speaker 4:Yeah, it's embarrassing.
Speaker 1:What exactly are you feeling and why is it you? Because that's the first question I would ask. Right, you know like I've been in that situation. Obviously, I was always the one that got picked because I have a girl, so girls love their dad. But in that situation I know I would be like, oh, but what is it, you know? Is it where I live? Is it you know how I'm treating you Like? What makes you feel different? Right, anything that's on her mind. Usually, I'm learning how to not just ask simple questions but ask deeper questions that lead to the answer that she wants to probably give, but doesn't want to at first and also I was thinking like the way he approached it and what he was saying.
Speaker 2:Oh, he's 12 and he wants to, you know, be with his mom. Maybe that was just an excuse. He's 12, he's going through hormone changes, maybe he has a little girlfriend that he wants to be around.
Speaker 4:We know that's the age of our boys.
Speaker 2:So maybe that's what it is. It's not that he wants to be with his mom and with his mom's side of the family. Maybe there's someone there that has this interest and he doesn't know how to express that.
Speaker 4:Yeah, because he's probably embarrassed or he's probably unable to have a girlfriend and look at how embarrassing his father is. And the video. The boy is just like this. He don't even want to look down.
Speaker 2:He couldn't even look at his dad. He should have been like Dad, I'm getting ass.
Speaker 1:You understand it's way more important than being here, Not at 12.
Speaker 4:God forbid Jesus Christ.
Speaker 1:Alright, you guys changed with the times.
Speaker 4:Yeah, we have. We're parents now, so that's why it's different you understand where we're from, like the islands?
Speaker 1:yes, I do. However, that was the norm, like DR and PR and stuff like that it was always a young boy and a little girl yes, johnny no, I didn't. I didn't have that experience.
Speaker 2:You didn't have a that's why you said love with Betty White.
Speaker 1:She's dead bro that's why I'm coming for it.
Speaker 2:Damn.
Speaker 1:I didn't get it when I was a kid. I'm coming for my dude now, Can I?
Speaker 2:I want to say one little last thing.
Speaker 4:Yeah, no, no, we're not done One thing that I did not like.
Speaker 2:that he said was fine, I'm not going to be in your life anymore. He said that yeah, you didn't hear that. At the end Like like I'm threatening him. I'm giving you what you want. That that was where I was like whoa.
Speaker 4:That's a narcissist.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because he's trying to make him feel bad. He's a victim, believe me, yeah.
Speaker 1:But it's also the system man. This shit is unfortunate the more you see that. Yes, but in the age of.
Speaker 2:Of what Information and where. You have all this stuff at your fingertips.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Go fucking seek the help.
Speaker 1:Right, but you say that because we have thankfully some of us taken that information and used it correctly. He looked like he listen he didn't look like he was a bum. No, I don't think he's a bum at all, so I think he has access. But I don't think it's funds right, it's still programming.
Speaker 2:Right, because he's an asshole. It's not about like yo.
Speaker 1:I got money for this and that is kind of like never transitioning to that like deeper work thing.
Speaker 2:Yes, Right because he thinks that as a true narcissist.
Speaker 4:Yeah, he can buy his son's love with the fun.
Speaker 2:Right, but he's not wrong. A narcissistic parent, they're not wrong. How I think is how I think, and you have to you have to do what I say, because I'm your parent.
Speaker 1:I know some narcissist parents. Yeah, I know them too, both moms and dads. Yeah, and it's just weird, bro. Like I be looking at that shit and I'm like, like you guys are in your 40s already. Y'all don't realize that your mom or your dad is acting this way and they're like it's the norm for them. That's the scary part.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that they doning.
Speaker 4:Like well, me and Harmony's dad when we got divorced, I never had an issue with him and like with as far as seeing her, she was four and a half when we got divorced. Ever since we got divorced until two, she moved in with him. She was with him every weekend. It wasn't a oh you know, I can't. I got my own thing going on Every weekend.
Speaker 1:He made it about her.
Speaker 4:He made it about her, that's it. All the vacations that he went on, he included her. That's beautiful. During the holidays it was a little tough for her because she wanted to be on both sides of the family, yeah it sucks. So he's Philippine. So since he's Philippine, they also do Christmas Eve, oh you know. So that was tough for her, like she would have to like pick which one, yeah, but we never like had any issues or like argued about oh no, you're not having her for the holiday. We let her make the decision.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Parents Listen, all parents out there and people that do the co-parenting thing. It's always about the kids.
Speaker 4:Yeah, let them have a choice.
Speaker 1:Main lesson.
Speaker 4:Even if you feel like children shouldn't have a choice because you're dumb. No, they definitely have to teach them that they have a choice.
Speaker 1:They do have a choice when it comes to certain things not all, yeah and they understand fully what's going on, because sometimes, again, a kid is just like you said he might be picking it because, yo, I like this girl on the block, like that's cool, you like the girl on the block, bro.
Speaker 1:But you know, unfortunately dad doesn't live here and he must see you every other weekend or so. That's a sacrifice that you have to make early, because now he learns in life like, yo, it's not all about me, and you avoid him becoming a narcissist as well, thinking like it's all me, all me, all day, which a lot of us parents make that mistake, right, we forget that our kids are, one day is going to be adults, right, one day they'll be adults and they'll have to learn that, yo, the world doesn't revolve around you. It may feel that way, but shit is happening and it's going to continue to happen. And if you don't get with the program and learn how to love and coexist with others and be part of society, you're gonna have a rough adulthood yeah of course, 100 well, hopefully he learns from this dick face yeah, he's a dick.
Speaker 2:Um, did you guys see that guy the other day that made his child overwork himself? Oh disgusting. To death To death.
Speaker 4:Yeah, literally I don't even get that mindset bro. What was the reason he said the boy was fat? That boy did not even look fat, not even.
Speaker 1:Also, he was a baby, tell them the story. So apparently this gentleman is on trial right now because there's video footage of him having his son who, like he was six or seven yeah and he was frail. I didn't see no fat fat on that kid running on a treadmill and the kid you know was like not keeping up because obviously he's a kid on a fucking treadmill going at a crazy speed.
Speaker 2:I saw that I'm like I'll struggle with that shit he was on, he had to have that full max on a 15.
Speaker 4:I cannot he kept increasing it yeah, he was holding him.
Speaker 2:God, I can't even get this image out of my head. He was like holding him up and the little boy was just like with his legs, but you could tell his body he's limp, and I was just like it was all in my heart no, they were not together.
Speaker 4:No, they were not together.
Speaker 2:I think like two days before the little boy died the mom had asked for full custody.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and was denied.
Speaker 2:And she was. She had been complaining that there were signs of abuse and the little boy had like bruising and all types of things, and they denied her and then unfortunately he passed away.
Speaker 4:Yeah, a week later from his heart yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 1:Y'all hope they molest the shit out of that guy in jail.
Speaker 2:I yeah.
Speaker 1:Because that's wild. I saw that shit. I mean he was crying on trial, bro. You're crying because you're afraid of jail time.
Speaker 2:Yeah, of course yeah.
Speaker 1:I'm not trying to judge you, but the way that video was going I don't think there was much like it's fucked up to say, but I don't think there's much care there for the kid's well-being, right. So you want me to now believe that you feel bad for what happened after seeing that. It's hard. The two don't go together.
Speaker 4:And of course there's parents who want to push their kids and train them right. But this is a seven-year-old boy. You know like you have to understand what it takes to do that. You know like for his little heart to go that fast and not get a break. And it was so. He died a week later. So that's all we saw in the video.
Speaker 2:Who knows what else he had him doing in the house, especially if the mom was complaining, and the bruising and all of those things. So God knows what that little boy was put through and the stress that was put on him.
Speaker 1:He was probably fucking him up and be like yo real men fight back.
Speaker 2:Right, who knows?
Speaker 4:Yeah, if he was training him to. Who knows, maybe he was training him to do some kind of fighting or anything, I don't know what the hell he was doing.
Speaker 2:He was. He's out of his mind Like there's there's definitely something wrong with him. His brain is is turned on a different station that nobody else is tuned into.
Speaker 4:Yeah, seeing all these videos like you see. Once you see these videos, the algorithm just keeps bringing you all these videos, god, I don't watch.
Speaker 4:I don't even watch the news, it's terrible because that's all that comes on my TikTok. Now, lately my TikTok has been showing me videos of girls who are posting. I'm okay, but then they put the reason like who molested them, like the things that they went through. Most of them are grandparents, grandfathers, stepfathers, and even some were their own fathers and they show, like you see, once you watch this video, you see all the other videos pop up and it's just like this started and in a lot of these videos the mothers didn't believe the girls, so they went to complain and the mothers didn't believe the girls.
Speaker 4:So they went to complain and the mothers didn't believe the girls. And and that's how do you not believe your child?
Speaker 1:you didn't see that one video. There's a video of the little girl that they were recording her like on the side and she's like crying to her grandmother and her grandmother questioned her like in that process and it was, and she's like why would I be lying? And I think it was like the mother's boyfriend was the one touching her or some kind of crazy shit. I remember seeing that video. I'm like yo, if that even came out of my daughter's mouth, my mom was not thinking twice to question her. It's like what?
Speaker 1:the where's he at, like what's going on, you know?
Speaker 2:I mean like I'm telling your father right now some shit. That shit was just crazy somebody's gonna like there's no way, there's no, that's yeah, so that's that's. That's all I've been seeing, and it's just sickening do we have any more anything positive to talk about? Yeah, let's talk about.
Speaker 4:I'm surprised now and let's talk about end of school coming up. You know, uh, we have a month, that's not. Oh, we have a month left.
Speaker 1:That's not positive.
Speaker 4:Yeah, we have a month left for the school year.
Speaker 3:That's parental torture.
Speaker 4:Not for me Well we well well yeah, I'm a working parent, so like out of home working parent, so I don't have to deal with the kids, but I get extra Well in the morning, you know.
Speaker 1:I had something with the homework, bullshit yeah they have a new event and everybody in school has to wear this green t-shirt.
Speaker 4:Oh yes.
Speaker 1:And all this nonsense. I'm not eating school lunch, so please make me something. And it's like 7.30 in the morning and I'm just like what?
Speaker 4:Can I go to town after school? You can go to town.
Speaker 2:Well, the baby still is going to be in daycare. Because daycare doesn't stop. Thank you, jesus, because. My kids will be like mom, you're going to stay home too, then right.
Speaker 4:Do you guys have any like summer vacation plans?
Speaker 2:Um no.
Speaker 1:I'm going to DR for Penelope's birthday.
Speaker 4:When's that?
Speaker 1:August 9th is her birthday. We we're leaving August 8th.
Speaker 4:Oh nice, oh, that's going to be nice. How old is she turning Nine? Nine, wow, katie's going to be eight.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 4:That's crazy.
Speaker 1:What day is Katie? Katie's?
Speaker 4:August 7th 7th right. Boom yeah. Oh 7, they may get along no they'll get along.
Speaker 1:Hang out, yeah, they will.
Speaker 2:Katie's going to be like damn, this girl's going to eat me. Stop it.
Speaker 4:Katie's so nice and frail.
Speaker 1:He's like what's up?
Speaker 4:Listen, it's tough, it's true. We have to get them together Definitely.
Speaker 1:They actually kind of look alike.
Speaker 4:Is it curly hair?
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's curly hair. It's like the. Chinky eyes Bam. I don't want to say that.
Speaker 2:That's not a thing. You can't say that that's not what I want to say Really.
Speaker 1:The slanted eyes.
Speaker 4:Slanted eyes? No, that's racist too, fuck.
Speaker 1:I was slanted racist. I was slanted racist. It's a feature, it's like.
Speaker 4:The small eyes. You know that's an ojito chino.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you know.
Speaker 4:Okay, say it in Spanish they have ojito chino.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it sounds less racist. It does sound less racist.
Speaker 4:Until they Google it and they're like that means Chinese eyes, but anyway, I don't have any vacation plans with the kids, which I usually do every year. I don't know what I'm doing yet, but they've been asking for something. But I have vacation bands for myself. Heard you. We have Girls Beach Day coming up.
Speaker 2:Oh, yes, and maybe Amir will you know, do some behind the scenes With the camera. Sorry yeah, Girls Weekend.
Speaker 4:We're going to Atlantic City. We do this every year. We get together for a weekend and we turn up.
Speaker 5:Nice.
Speaker 4:So we look forward to that, and then I'm going on a cruise, my first cruise in July. You're going to love it For a week Cruises are life.
Speaker 2:Where are you?
Speaker 4:going. It's leaving from New York. It's going to Bahamas.
Speaker 1:From Jersey or from Chesapeake? No, and DR. What line is this Norwegian?
Speaker 4:Carnival.
Speaker 1:Carnival is doing Turks and Caicos DR. All right, I got to book this shit, it's an eight-day cruise. Okay, it's a long cruise. I used to work for Carnival.
Speaker 4:But you're smart, You're going in the summer when you're leaving the winter from New York the first two days is brunch, you know, and so I'm thinking about doing something with them in August, maybe, like.
Speaker 2:I do want to go see my mom and my dad.
Speaker 1:Where are? They In Florida oh they live in Florida, yeah, oh, I didn't know, this I don't see them Can't go wrong. In Florida there's so much stuff to do in Florida. You should be going in the winter.
Speaker 2:Right, I try to. I honestly, I used to go. I used to try to go every other month, but you know, yeah, flights are expensive right now.
Speaker 4:Life is changing.
Speaker 1:Yeah, everything's through the roof. You got four kids.
Speaker 2:Damn. No, I don't need to take them, but you have to take the kids. No it is expensive no it's that Devin never wants to go.
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, he's like me, he's a homebody.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yes, as long as he has his TV and sports he don't really care what you're doing, how you're doing it, he don't care.
Speaker 4:I tell him you want to that was me, I was a no king, that's him nope. So you just came back from vacationing with a child, with children, how was the experience?
Speaker 1:um, torture, uh, and it was torture because, again, it's different with children. Children is fine, I don't give a shit, like whatever, but Paige is, was in a crawling stage at that point and in DR the floors are dirty as shit, so I'm obviously she can't be crawling, so we had to carry her the whole time and I think that in and of itself, added remember, I tell you guys, I had that horror story. She didn't want to be with anybody but myself and her mother, right, so it was kind of like, oh shit, so it made it even more clingy. Um, but the flight fire that kid slept on the plane ride.
Speaker 1:No, she was awake, which was wild to me Really. Yeah, when she was three months, we went to DR and she actually slept the whole flight there and the whole flight back. So I was like Jesus loves me this time around I'm like yo, she's a pain in the ass and she doesn't take naps like that. But nah, gucci, thank the Lord Sure.
Speaker 4:Because I hate that when you're on a plane and the kids I understand I'm a parent. But when you're on a plane and a kid is just screaming and crying and banging on the seat, you just want to tell them like yo control your kid.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but that's the thing. Like I agree, like yo, kids are wild, da, da, da da. But I think you're very irresponsible. If you don't see, yo, my kid is being fucking nuts. Let me give him some Benadryl, like I know it sounds Maybe not the Benadryl. No, my mom used to give me Dynatap. You know what I use.
Speaker 2:You have to Okay so I will say I went-.
Speaker 1:You got to think about other people.
Speaker 2:MJ was no, MJ was little, it's true.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so you're supposed to swallow and they can't chew gum. So you want to give them a bottle while they're going up in the air. So, mj, this child, he's a pain in the ass. He was one of those kids that were crying, crying, crying, and I tried everything. He didn't want his bottle, he didn't want anything. He didn't want anything. I gave him. You're on the flight back and I felt bad, but I was also really annoyed. The two girls in back of me. They were like I don't even know why somebody would be.
Speaker 1:And I turned around. If you get like that, I'm going to let my kid cry.
Speaker 2:And so I let him cry and then I turned around I was like problem, not understanding, not understanding, and they didn't say nothing. Because obviously you don't want to get banned from flying, you don't want to be on the no-fly list, but yeah. But on the way back there was nothing to put a baby to sleep and god, I'm not gonna get anyway, what I did was, you know the little all they had in in the in the airport were the nyquil, no, the Z-Quil, z-quil, not NyQuil, not NyQuil the Z-Quil. Even worse, no so.
Speaker 4:She drunk again.
Speaker 3:I didn't Benadryl's like baby juice.
Speaker 2:It was the little tablets the liquid tabs. So I poked a hole in it and I just took a tiny bit Don't air this in it. And I just took a tiny bit Don't air this, I don't care. I took a little drop of it, just one little tiny drop of it, and I put it in his mouth, right, and gave him a bottle, thank God.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but he was calm. Thank God I did, though. No, he didn't knock out right, but he was calm. No, he slept, oh, he slept.
Speaker 2:He didn't sleep, like you know he wasn't drugged.
Speaker 1:No, no, but that's my point. No, but you gotta do what you gotta do. You gotta take shit into consideration like I'm cool with babies crying like the that same flight, so when pages with her mom I'm here because we were in different seats the lady on the third seat so me yourself this lady here had a baby as well, kind of like a little boy, and that motherfucker was crying his head off his ears probably hurt him.
Speaker 1:And I understand it's a baby. So I wasn't like. I wasn't like, oh my God, this lady's crazy.
Speaker 4:But after a while, but when they're like a toddler and they're banging on the chair and like, yeah, go on, no, no no, you got to calm them down. That's why, little Benadryl, Get candy, eat a lollipop stuck on a lollipop and that.
Speaker 2:At that, at that age, like if mj what you're doing now he's four, right, we're talking about he was a baby yeah, yeah, no, I for you understand, you know at four years old, we going to the bathroom.
Speaker 4:Because I'm a bitch exactly my point, that little ass bathroom?
Speaker 1:no, when I see people letting their fucking kids running up down the lane. I'm like yo and that's so dangerous are you?
Speaker 2:crazy. That's so dangerous, god forbid. It hits a freaking air pocket all of a sudden and your baby's on in the top of the freaking yeah no ping pong ball yeah, sounds about white and it is because we don't play that shit yeah, no, not happening.
Speaker 4:Anyway, I don't drug my kids, no, but listen. I remember my mom giving me Dimetop when she wanted to have a party at nighttime and I used to love Dimetop because it was good.
Speaker 1:That was my Friday. Drink the purple Dimetop the grape. I think they only had purple at that point.
Speaker 4:Yo, it was good an old spoon, and that's why now scissor picks exist and this bitch this is now why I'm allergic to amoxicillin, because you remember the pink amoxicillin, uh-huh. I used to like the taste Like bubblegum flavor. It tastes like candy. So I used to be like, come on, give me more.
Speaker 1:I probably was drinking it in the refrigerator like guzzling that cold water. That shit is probably the cause of a lot of my mental issues. Yo, that shit probably ate away in my brain Because it's cool once in a while, but like every Friday it was like my favorite drink.
Speaker 4:But that's why I'm allergic to Moxie Silly right now, because I drank it as juice when I was younger.
Speaker 2:Now my parents just was like we going to the Copa. Bye.
Speaker 4:Damn, they were young parents.
Speaker 2:Were they? No they weren't.
Speaker 4:They weren't young when they had you no.
Speaker 1:You guys raised each other.
Speaker 4:My mom was 32. That's pretty young, yeah, what's up?
Speaker 1:with you. You age bigot.
Speaker 2:I'm just saying 32 is young, okay.
Speaker 4:I just saw a TikTok. A lady had a baby yesterday at 50 years old. And her husband was 62 ooh, their first kid first child.
Speaker 1:So yeah, just leaving him alone in life well, right, that's that's, men could have kids until they're like 100. Yeah, I mean, listen, she's 50 yeah, he'll be 30, like if she gets to 80, so I guess that's somewhat cool kind of fucked up, but somewhat cool, didn't.
Speaker 2:Al Pacino, just have a kid, no.
Speaker 4:De were cool, didn't Al Pacino just have a kid? No, de Niro, robert De Niro yeah, they're not the same person. He's like 78, right.
Speaker 2:Yeah, Wait. No, they both had kids recently. Maybe Robert De Niro? Wait, I'm Googling this, Robert De Niro.
Speaker 4:I think he's like 78.
Speaker 1:Yeah, this is like his fifth kid, I think.
Speaker 4:How old?
Speaker 2:is Robert De Niro, 87. I'm just joking, he's 80.
Speaker 1:I was joking, Johnny. Yo, that's crazy bro.
Speaker 4:I thought they would be having sugar and powder at the age of 80.
Speaker 2:Look Powder milk Last year. June 27, 2023, al Pacino becomes a dad again, at 83.
Speaker 1:Yo he's losing a wallet.
Speaker 2:As he and girlfriend welcome baby boy, she could have been His grandchild.
Speaker 1:How old is the girlfriend? I can't even. Nah that's kinda crazy.
Speaker 3:I got a question afterwards.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:I'm so scared, no.
Speaker 4:Isn't that pot of milk?
Speaker 3:So I just have a question 29 29, she was 29 and he was 83.
Speaker 1:Oh, she's getting that Leftover money. Yo good girl.
Speaker 4:He probably had like one pump.
Speaker 3:That was the only pump he was in the.
Speaker 2:The last pump.
Speaker 1:What's the question, brother?
Speaker 3:Okay, so how old so the record? How old was the oldest person to have a baby for the first time?
Speaker 2:For the first time In the Bible.
Speaker 1:No just to have a baby for the first time for the first time and the bible no, just the bible was uh, sarah right like at 300 no, she was like 90 no, it was like they were in the hundred in the hundreds.
Speaker 2:No, I need to read the bible. Let me sit up straight here, hello. Okay, let's take a guess. Jasmine, what's?
Speaker 1:the, the woman or the person, yeah, the oldest woman to have a child?
Speaker 4:Yeah, yeah. I would say 62.
Speaker 3:What do you say?
Speaker 1:66. I say 70.
Speaker 3:You say 70?, 73. And she had twins.
Speaker 5:Oh, so it was in vitro.
Speaker 3:Yeah, what, and that's in India. So that's as of May 17, 2024.
Speaker 4:That's crazy. That's a whole grandma having a baby.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm into old ladies, but who's smashing a 72-year-old bro?
Speaker 2:No, nobody In India, because it was in vitro 73. Oh yeah, you're right, nobody did it. How'd she look?
Speaker 1:She did it for her family.
Speaker 2:Maybe she was a surrogate? Yeah, Either way she could die.
Speaker 1:Hold on, that's crazy.
Speaker 4:Some people are ready to die for their grandkids and you know what, the older you have kids, the more chances the kids are going to come out with like Down Syndrome.
Speaker 3:I just read that's what I told baby mama. Oh, someone else broke that record. What? No, no, no. Okay, so this person broke the record from the previous person who had it at 66. Oh, wow 66. Oh wow she also had twin boys.
Speaker 1:That's what I thought it was.
Speaker 3:Do you guys want to see a picture? I do.
Speaker 4:Let's see if she's a baddie.
Speaker 1:No, she's not a baddie. She got money.
Speaker 2:A 73.
Speaker 1:Big difference. But yeah, it says that women that have kids after 35, I forgot how long your life expectancy jumps up and then after 40, it jumps up some other number. Really, oh shit. And I think it's because that maternal nature makes you want to stick around longer. So I guess it like breathes new life. You know how they say like the best gift for a grandparent is grandkids.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Because it gives them new reason to keep pumping, keep rocking.
Speaker 3:Interesting. I saw a picture and I instantly felt kind of nauseous. I felt nauseous.
Speaker 4:He's smashing those titterins, stop it. Does she look like her grandma? First of all, where's she from?
Speaker 1:No, that's not the Indian lady, that's the Spanish lady 66?
Speaker 4:Let me see, does she look like my? Mom, she was not 66.
Speaker 1:Yeah, 66 when 10 years before that.
Speaker 2:First of all, she looks 97. No she looks, which one's mine. She did not just have a baby.
Speaker 3:Hello, let me see Hello.
Speaker 2:How's that? My three you saw right there, come on.
Speaker 1:That's not her I think you're lying, johnny?
Speaker 2:no way, no.
Speaker 4:No way Show the camera this.
Speaker 2:That can't be.
Speaker 4:There's no way, amir. Amir's going to have to add it afterwards.
Speaker 1:You're crazy yeah oldest mother, anatolia Vertadela, broke Guinness world record how old is she? 66, i'ma throw up she's not 66, she's 96, no hold on. Actually, we're all wrong. Hold on. Napoli, italy, anatolia Vertadela, a 101 year old Italian woman, has given birth to a 9 pound baby after a controversial ovary transplant widely criticized by medical professionals because of her advanced age. Who was the mother fucker? That fucker? Nah, that was. They said it was like a medical thing, didn't they? It was done like.
Speaker 2:No, it says. What you just read was that she had something an ovary transplant so somebody was working those ovaries okay so who's the pappy?
Speaker 1:I hope he's 80. Yo, yeah, because, come on, pacino just did an 83, oh my god, can you?
Speaker 4:if she breastfeed, it's gonna come out like powder.
Speaker 1:There's no breast there. The shit is down to her knees. She's fucking knee feeding.
Speaker 2:Can we talk about something else now, Please? I'm so Yo that was crazy.
Speaker 1:I think we should wrap it up, yeah let's wrap it up.
Speaker 2:As that guy should have, wrap it up Actually Literally, and stop having sex with 101-year-old women.
Speaker 1:You know anything? For the record, I guess.
Speaker 2:Hey, whatever.
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